Flame
Keeping
Community Ritual
Monthly Fire Tending
Brighid’s Undying Fire is a profound symbol and beacon of hope for many. Her Eternal Flame has been tended to for centuries, burning away at the horrors of night.
I am extending this humble invitation for you to tend Brighid’s Flame with me, one of Her Flame Keepers*.
For a fixed £6, a candle will be lit for you from the Solas Bhríde flame that I personally brought back from a pilgrimage to Co. Kildare, Ireland.
Where I can find them, I default to 100% local beeswax candles. Failing that, a floating candle whose wick has been doused in a sacred oil of my composition, dedicated and blessed by the Goddess, will be used as an alternative.
I propose to add your fire to mine and, at no additional cost or extra charge on your part, to fix, engrave, name, or pray over your candle if you so wish. Some have used this light to bless a new endeavour, protect a loved one, or keen the dead.
What space would you like me to hold for you ?
*Please Note: As part of their exclusive privileges, my Patreons automatically benefit from a recurring entry to my Flamekeeping shift, upon monthly request.
The Need-Fire
The fire of necessity that burns at the center of the tribe is the primordial Nied Fyr, Feu de Joie, Tin-Egin / Tein-Eigin or Need-Fire of our mythical Hearth.
Let us foster community.
As a Brighidine, Hearth-Keeping is at the core of my spiritual practice. When I say that I am a Hearth-Keeper, I mean that in the sense that I am a bearer or wielder of a Sacred Flame, a task I have been called, and humbly permitted, to do. I thus identify with those hallowed lineages, traditions and cultures who light, feed, maintain, and ultimately strive to embody the deeper secrets of the fire-at-the-center. The mysteries of the hearth are ancient, sorcerous yet pious, and indeed essential to hospitality - how to grant, defend, and safeguard it; protecting the boundaries of the home and its access by visitors and outsiders. For watching over the hearth fire, whether literally or metaphorically, is ensuring the continuity of the tribe - not just attending to its physical, emotional or spiritual needs, but remembering and preserving its identity through stories, the forgotten knowledge and wisdom, the old lore and teachings to be passed on. I see spiritual hearth-keeping as path-tending: an act of service to the collective, for my community human and non-human, from this world and the other - taking on the responsibility of gently guiding, setting, and respecting the rules of reciprocity that underpin rightful relationships, hosting and guesting, with those invisible we share the world with.
Breochwidh, Inghean An Dagha*
*Fire-Keeper, Daughter of the Fire
I have been an ardent Brighidine for close to ten years, but officially formalising my calling in 2019.
Being a Flamekeeper is a way for me to honour Brighid in an intimate capacity while also inscribing myself more broadly into the practices of an existing community. The goddess has tended the flame for me, within me, for a long time, and in more ways than one. I could go on about how deeply sacred, how achingly beautiful, how profoundly soulful the practice has proven to be. I make a ceremony of it, complete with music, prayers, songs and offerings. It matters to me that the ritual is repeated, that it is an ongoing commitment and not just a one time event.
In 2023, I went on a pilgrimage to Kildare (Ireland) and brought back fire lit from the Solas Bhríde’s flame. As part of a pledge I took with myself prescribing I be more open in the world about my religious beliefs, I decided to extend my Flamekeeping practice to the public, and issue an open invitation to all who need it, offering to light a candle on your behalf at Brighid’s altar, in what became a monthly community ritual.
In each Cill, one is assigned a shift one particular day over a cycle spanning 20 days. From the first day up to the 19th, Brighid’s perpetual fire is lit, and then “passed” from one member’s shift up to the next, so that Brighid’s fire is thus ever burning. A shift lasts for 24 hours from sundown to sundown, time during which I am responsible for tending the flame, taking care of the fire, making sure it does not extinguishes, and delivering it safely from the dark of night to the light of day. On the 20th day, Brighid is said to tend Her own fire Herself, after which day the cycle repeats itself.
I am a now committed member of two organisations dedicated to the tending of Brighid’s flame in a priestly capacity:
Daughters of the Flame (having joined their Cill Saileach first, and then moving on to Cill Dara).